Teaching children to persevere is an important aspect of their personal skills to develop. Preparing a child with the emotional tools to succeed in life is one of the parent's most difficult jobs and teaching perseverance is no exception. Some children are more inclined to persevere than others, but all can learn some aspects of this trait.
1. Resist jumping in. When you see your child struggling with something, it's every parent's urge to jump in and help. Don't. It will lead to a cycle of uncompleted projects and frustration for both of you.
2. Encourage from the sidelines. Say to them, "I know you can figure it out, I have confidence in you. You're a smart kid." This will boost their confidence and self esteem, giving them enough emotional steam to persevere to the task's completion. Then watch your child's self esteem grow when they accomplish what they thought was impossible.
3. Start early. It is much more difficult to teach a teenager to tie their shoes than a four or five year old child. Start the practice of perseverance early so you and they can master the skill.
4. Lead by example. If you quit when the going gets a little rough, they will too. Set personal and family goals and work to achieve them. Make a family diary to record your progress and review your goals annually to redirect as needed.
5. Let your child set his or her own personal goals as well. When your child has the calling to achieve something, give all the assistance you can. Cheer them on, help them doresearch and give them love and encouragement. This helps them know you think they're a great kid and can do anything with the right kind of help.
6. Enlist help. Go online to find help to aid in your parenting journey, including how to equip your child with the emotional tools they need.
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