ORGANIZATIONAL SKILLS
Getting
your children to finish assignments is a difficult task for some parents.
Teaching your children study habits and organizational skills at an early age
can help cut back frustration and poor schoolwork. Even though their academic
achievement will benefit from this, these are life-long skills that will be
helpful in many areas in your child’s life. Here are a few simple tips.
1.
Talk to your child about school.
Find out if there are any subjects that he finds intimidating or any that he
looks forward to, and see how he feels about his teacher and his classmates.
2.
Give your child a three-ring binder
to hold his/ her calendar and organize his/ her assignments and notes.
Encourage your child to write down her assignments in the calendar. For
long-term assignments, help him/her decide how to break the project into chunks
with specific goals set for specific dates.
3.
Give your child a place to do
schoolwork. Children do not mind unique or small spaces, so a corner
with a pillow and a sheet draped over it or a space under a table may suffice
if you have a small living space.
4. Limit distractions. This may
include television, phones, computers and siblings or any other stimuli that
can sabotage schoolwork. Turning off all electronics and limiting socializing
allows your child to focus on the task at hand and reinforces the importance of
schoolwork.
5. Ensure that your child gets breaks
when needed. If you are a firm believer in all homework being finished
in one sitting, let your child know that it is okay to switch between subjects
if he needs a break. If your child has focusing problems, set a
timer in short
increments, then gradually increase the amount of time that he is working on a
task.
6.
Reinforce the use of the homework
folder our elementary teachers use. Most school folders are labeled one
side "Keep at Home" and the other side "Return to School."
Make sure your child puts assignments, permission slips, calendars and other
important papers in the folder. Go through the folder as often as you can with
your child and then periodically check it after she has become accustomed to
the routine.
7.
Set an example. If you are in
school, work on your schoolwork at the same time your child works on his. If
you simply have household chores to do, designate a specific chore time, even
if you realistically do chores at other times, and make that time schoolwork
time as well.
8. Make it fun.
Put an incentive chart in your house. Try to stay away from using the chart to
earn intrinsic or extrinsic rewards; many children simply enjoy the stickers on
the chart. If you also are in school, track your assignments with your child.
If you are not, track your chores instead.
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